Each day you live is a special occasion.

A friend opened the drawer of the dresser of his wife and pulled out a small package wrapped in silk paper that said: "This is not a simple package, is beautiful lingerie". Pull the paper wrapped and noted the exquisite silk and lace. She had bought 9 years ago on a special trip they made together. Never use the lingerie.

What i was saving for a "special occasion".

"Good," she thought - "then, I believe that this is the occasion". Approached the bed and placed the garment along with the other clothes that would lead to the funeral home. His wife had just died. AND turning toward me, told me: "Don't save anything for a special occasion: each day you live is a special occasion".

And today I am still thinking in these words: they have changed my life.

Now i read more and less clean. 
Now I am on the terrace and admire the view without just suck in the weeds from the garden. 
I spend more time with my family and friends and less time at work. 
I experiences to be enjoyed, not to survive. 
No longer saved nothing. Use my crystal glasses every day. 
I pull on my new coat to go to the supermarket, if I choose and i seems to me.
Not already saved my best perfume for special parties, i use every time I feel like doing so.   

I'm not sure what I would have done the wife of my friend if he had known that i wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take so lightly. I think that would have been called to their family and close friends. Who knows, at best, been called to some old friends to apologize and make peace by possible annoyances of the past. I like to think that he would have gone to eat chinese food, your favorite.

Those things are left undone, i would be angry if I knew that my hours are limited. Angry that leave to see good friends with whom I was going to contact "someday"… not angry because i wrote certain letters that I was thinking of writing "one of these days". Angry and sad because I didn't tell them to my brothers and my children often enough how much I love them.

Now I try to not slow down, stop, or save anything that would bring laughter and joy to our lives. And each morning I tell myself that this day is special, each hour, each minute… is special, unique and unrepeatable.

If you received this, it is because someone loves you and wanted to share it with you. Do not keep this thought for the day tomorrow. Now is a good time to share it with your friends and family. The time is now, not tomorrow. Now is better than "one of these days" in order to share the joy and motivation to enjoy life, that "one of these days" is very far or may not ever reach ...

     

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Reflection of a wise woman

They say that to a certain age the women we are invisible, that our role in the scene of life declines, and that we become nonexistent for a world in which only the impetus of the young.

I don't know if i'll become invisible to the world, it is very likely, but i was never so aware of my existence, i have never felt as hero of my life, and i never enjoyed both every moment of my existence as now.

I discovered that I am not a princess in a fairy tale, i discovered the human being that I am simply, with its miseries and their greatness. I discovered that I can't afford the luxury of not being perfect, being filled with defects, have weaknesses, of certainty, of doing things wrong does not respond to the expectations of others. And in spite of this .... ¡Cares About me a lot!

When I look in the mirror no longer sought to which I was ... smiled at the i am now.

I am pleased to see the road we have travelled, i assume my contradictions. I feel that I need to greet the young woman who i went with affection, but leave it to one side because now I am getting. Your world of illusions and fantasies, i am no longer interested in:

Gee, I really live without the obsession with perfection!

How nice not to feel this anxiety that produces permanent running after dreams! 

"Life is so short and the craft of experiencing it is so difficult, that when one begins to learn the language, there are already to die." 

A WISE WOMAN ACCEPTS THIS AND MUCH MORE ...     

LLuvia

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The criticism of the negative people

We know many people throughout our lives. Many have not been pleasant, but rather than criticize, we have to do is try to help them. Don't know, we do not know your heart…perhaps one kind word make a change in their lives.

How many times you've encountered people really negative? That kind of person that everything looks bad, that everything wrongly interpreted and will stop at nothing to try to correct your errors (errors that only that person perceives, because in your inside you feel like you're doing the right things)…

Yes, there are those people who are living in a deep pit of stubbornness and by more than try to make them see that they are in error, don't see that. They are like tiny spines that you have there glued to the soles of the feet and that you prevent walk strong and secure, because the constant criticism is very destructive and you get to affect your emotions and your self-esteem…

So what can be done to these people? How do I make them understand that they are negative and his condition makes them see things this way?

To begin, we need seek psychological help, support them so that they learn to see their errors, you can learn to be different, that they realize that damage to third parties with their attitudes. Change is not easy, but we need try again. It is sad to see a person act in this way, because you are finally losing their friends, because nobody likes to be judged in a negative way…

For that reason, it is opportune time to help them, to channel your life differently, in a positive way. 

If you are in contact with people who are only able to see the negative things, help them to change   

You who are strong, self-reliant and you own safety, you can help these people. You are able to see all the things in a positive way, because love and with this love all around you… to which drops and supports the needy… that God will thank you with a thousand blessings to your life!

Ian:

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If all roads coming to Rome, how do you exit of Rome?

Sometimes, think about it too much and feel too little. 

My grandfather always said, if someone wants to seriously be part of your life, will do the impossible by being in it, although in a certain way, we lose sight screens between the value of the gazes, forgetting that when someone we spend their time, we are giving away the only thing that it will not recover ever.

AND is that the life they are moments, you know? Now that I am here, and tomorrow morning i don't know. So I wanted to tell you that if you ever want to something, if you want something of truth, therefore sees without looking back, looking at the fear of face and eyes, surrendering him everything and giving soul, drawing the child in you, the one that believes in the impossible and that would give the Moon by touching a star. So I don't know what will be my tomorrow, but this sun will always be the same as yours. 

That friends are the family that we chose, and I choose thee, I choose it to be masters of the wrinkles that i will have on the lips of old, handsome and strong for all these years by your side, by the sleepless nights, the festivals, the laughter, the secrets and the loves of the past. Your hugs as well because if, without coming to story or have something to celebrate because.

AND is that all this time i realized, that the small details that make the big things.

You've made my infinite limit. So I would like to thank you for being the only person capable of making me cry laughing. To appear in my life with that smile crazy, by the sparkle in the eyes capable of fighting against a million of tsunamis. So no, I don't know where we will be within 10 years, or how do you get out of Rome. I can't ensure anything. But I promise you, that whatever happens, wherever you are, I'm going to remember it all his life, and for this reason, my Moon is going to be with you always .Because your, i overwhelmed you taught us to live each day as the first day of the rest of my life. And that, that I am not going to never forget.    

Ian

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Live in harmony with yourself

Nothing we do will surely appeal to those who don't value the life, faith and hope. More that should not be of importance for you, you ought to be better each day, you'll never please everyone, you are a unique person and there is no other to do or think like you.

Surely many times you try to do good things and not what you get, don't let this put you off the desire to continue with good intentions ... maybe one day we humans live in harmony and peace with all.

-We have to think that if we do we will receive the same evil, the hatred creates more hatred and love much more love-

Live in harmony with yourself. Be happy and let the world be, forgives everyone and loves those who are at your side. It's the best we can do each day that passes.

drowns out everything we do to others, some day come to be our legacy.

We are trying to make each and every person that make up our world are good people, already with that we should be paid.

Life is too complicated for us we do worse, better we live free and in harmony.

      

Ian: 

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Love

Love one another, you were born for one another. And they will be forever. Be together when the wings of death from spreading their days. Yes, they will be together even in the silent memory of God. But let there are gaps in its proximity. And let the breezes of the heavens dance between you.

Love one another the one to the other. Most do not make the love a tether, let them have a sea in movement between the beaches of their souls. Mutually imbued the drinks, but don't drink only one cup, share his bread, but do not eat the same piece.

Singing, dancing, and rejoice ... But each one being independent, as well as even the ropes of the lute are alone though vibrate with the same music. Give your heart, but not as a pledge, because only the hand of life can contain your hearts

And stay together, but not too much. Because the pillars of the temple are further apart and neither the oak tree grows in the shade of cypress, cypress or under the oak.  

LLuvia

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