Tuesday, June 30, 2015

** Mourning in the heart **

There is nothing more difficult to wake up every morning remembering that who both have loved has died, that is gone forever. Don't know how to deal with the loneliness, do not know what will happen with your life, because you never expect overnight you can lose to whom both housewives.
"We were very happy, our talks were of large and small things, everything seemed to have importance for it, and so i transmitting. Tapeworms goodness for all that you needed, today it is very sad knowing that you are no longer. Don't know how I can overcome your death, or if i can achieve this… They say that little by little over the stages of grief, but now I just want to cry when I remember you."
The experience that will live after the departure of someone close and loved is something very complicated, and much more if you had not foreseen. But who owns life? Only God. Only God knows the because of the things.
The first thing that happens to you by the head is not to accept the fact that has died. Do you think is a dream that will wake up tomorrow with the good news that is there, on the other side of the phone line, willing to talk with you for that don't worry more…
It is particularly distressing when someone dies and you haven't had time to embrace, time to say goodbye and to tell them how much you are loved. But thanks be to God, you feel the comfort that even though it is not the way you couldn t say that you'd do now, we already knew loved by you. You know, that although could go a long time without knowing each other, had a strong bond of love that it took you to presentirlo without even seeing him.
After accepting the fact that it is not, who has died, come the tears and many! Your heart drops to pieces, you don't know how to begin the day, it is increasingly strong pain and less understanding of the people around you because nobody can understand that no matter what we lived between the two, there is no comfort as possible.
Losing a loved one is very hard, almost daily is read and hear about the death of other people, but never thinks that one day when i arrived to be something so close and personal. There is no pain greater than that of losing a loved one, nothing more hard to find you crying every dawn without knowing how to stop the tears. Your chest is depressed and the days become increasingly slow and gray.
But the that we are Christians we know that death is not the last step to be taken. Who died is with our Lord, and from there, we will send all his peace. God will give us everything we need, that we live in the way of the Lord, we know and believe in eternal life. And that is the hope we have, that one day we will be back to see him and our meeting will be a lot nicer.
Today I understand the pain of the loss. Still can't get accepted, but little by little ful walk knowing that is seated at the table of the Lord, what great privilege, truth?
Today we can only hope that the time click what is theirs and will bring peace, because as long as it remains in our heart and mind, your gear will have only been in body. It will always be in every rose garden, in each snowflake that falls, in every drop of rain that will pose on my… he always will be.
Each time that we appoint that person sure to be watching and hoping that we will be well, that won't let us cry, as it will be in peace with God and much more with all what i love…
We will absorb cost increases the pain but also we will give you wings to fly in peace. God take care of them and of us forces in the face of adversity.


Monday, June 29, 2015

** Fear of Happiness **

Many people are afraid of happiness. For these people, this word means changing a series of habits and lose their own identity.
Many times we feel unworthy to live the good things that happen to us. 
Not accepting them because, in so doing, we have the feeling that we owe something to God. We think: "It is better not to try the chalice of happiness, because when we suffer a lot missing"...
For fear of eroding, we continue to grow.
For fear of crying,
stop laughing.
 



Saturday, June 27, 2015

** The magic of love **

The magic of love for life can work miracles in your life. 
Loose ... loose ... loose ... the limitations, the "no" or, "I cannot" 
you can always, don't tell me that you can't, do you want to?
If you want the magic of life this latent in it then "if you can". If you don't want to and you are looking for excuses to do those things that gives you the life ... This well, but you don't while, life is a river that passes under the bridge of your existence, and will not stop until that one day you just won't know that dried. 
See what you want, don't ... Forging, creates, loves leave your gift to the world, you no longer lay limitations
Put your grief and your body to rest in the souls of an angel of light How?simple ... just do it ... 
With love to life and my wish for you today ... Be happy, that your happiness is not based on people or things. 
Be happy with yourself 


**WHAT THE LIFE TAUGHT ME**

That by more run will not arrive before to the sites. 
That is more important and useful to have a hand of friendship to be able to hold our own and not to make the journey in solitude. 
That feelings delivered more noble and honest are the ones that we must evaluate. 
That smiling causes many difficulties more bearable. 
That selfishness and neglect only lead to negative consequences. 
That small and satisfactory moments are the ones that certainly Colman our welfare.
That friendship cannot be bought with money, it is a feeling great that has no price. 
It is necessary that our eyes leak tears in some moments to be able to see the light and the clarity with all its sharpness. 
That "love" is not the simile of "wanting". Love for wanting, wanting to get, is the similarity in many people. 
That dedication to others does not mean the obligation of having to receive necessarily.
One glance and a sincere shared silence says more than a word with such hypocrisy and speaking from the lie. That we must learn to stand up after each fall. 
That the eyes speak for themselves. 
That the word "friend" has for many people the meaning of "known". In the friendship that the distance does not have to be synonymous with forgetting. 

Thursday, June 25, 2015

**Losing to win**

Sounds easy, even simple, but it is not. We must be prepared to lose something to gain something better. Willing to lose what we work for a long time, in order to gain something new, different and better.

Many times it is necessary to win… lose when we are in a relationship with your partner that has become stormy, when those same dreams that one day fed our lives are no longer, when that person that was your life was, tea has been unfaithful… or when your friends with the who and dad your joys and sorrows are no longer there for you, are too busy to attend.

Your marriage has been horrible, just want to keep it all a bad dream for awakening of all these sad realities… in all these situations, one must lose to win.

There is to lose, release what does not make us well, although it is something that we strive and we thought long ago. You cannot be all the time talking about the suffering and injustices that we live, we must be willing to release, leave behind… lose to win.

It clear that you will suffer, you're going to cry, but what is worth more? Will be a time in silence, a cleaning inside to be able to exit the light, to be able to give to life another chance and try to live in a calm manner. For fear of loneliness just clinging to memories, to what we have won and what time we have been saving. Everything in life it takes effort, why costs drop and lose. But nothing in this life belongs to us, even our own life, everything is borrowed, nothing is eternal… That's why I invite you to do this reflection: many times we must lose to stand up and win again.

Remember their life was like before they arrive so many problems and suffering are holding in their hearts. Where was this person that eras before, with dreams of success and projects? Where is that fighter that person more than once was model to follow for other people? What was the person with purpose and vision that once?

You try to search within your being that step with the person who once thou wast, and think again that you are very special.

Returns to believe in yourself, in your capacity to love and make progress in what you propose. Think again that if you want to work on something, you can do it. Returns to be a safe person for itself, as you've been in the past, more than now ... before it reached that person that i just completely annulling.

There is nothing easy laughing again without stopping, it is not easy when you just want to cry. It is not easy to get back to deliver the heart when you have broken several times, but it can be, if you put on your part you can. Only you need to be aware that there are times when it is know release, let go of what surrounds you (whether material or sentimental) and letting go those things that don't make you happy.    

There is to lose to win, because within this "loss" you'll never have to be reborn, to live the life without be suffering or without being the entire day talking about your woes… There is life for you, there is hope within the pain, trust in God that he will. Make an exercise;

-Sigh- Loose… and returns to live. 

**The Past**

The past is what we have experienced, there is nothing left to be done in this regard, the thinking about what we did, we did not or could not do we solve the present, not only leave us live today and walk toward the future.
Accept our past will allow us to accept ourselves, leave to shift the blame, the weight of our backpack alivianara, let all that experience help us to grow is healthy and will allow us to continue forward with greater security.
Dare to live the future is to overcome the fears, that makes us brave people, be clear that nothing and no one can ensure that we not suffer, it is part of life, the important thing is to go forward past the bad times rescuing the positive education that in this there is.
The future is in your hands, is where you should put your energy.

**GIVE LIFE TO YOUR DREAMS**

dreams to life that feed the soul, never confuse this with the empty realities. Dale dreams to life that feed the soul, never confuse this with the empty realities. While your mind may feel the need to achieve the goals and climb mountains ,never break your dreams, because the soul mattes.

Give life to your dreams even if you call you crazy, don't leave that die of boredom, little by little, they do not break the wings which are fantasy and let fly with you in the company.

Give life to your dreams and, with them flying down the stars and the wind, whispering, will tell you secrets that you have been saved and you will feel your body with caresses, bathed, that awakens the soul to be at your side.

Give life to the dreams that you have hidden, you'll discover that you can live these moments with your eyes open and the fears asleep, with the eyes closed and dreams awake.



Tuesday, June 23, 2015

** A new opportunity **

I have had bad experiences in life, reasons to cry and suffer… but i have decided to not let myself be influenced by the past. I am far from perfection, I have made mistakes, but as a person i am unique, there is no one like me. I have the right to find love and happiness, and I will do so.

We are all entitled to a second chance. You can in your first stage, suffering and tears, but today it gives you a new chance in life… don't close your eyes and your heart to another option, should not live with fears taxes of the past.

Do not discard the love, you can now let it matters a lot and think that after what he had experienced the love is no longer an option. But all of those questions and doubts you assault do not get response if you stay in your fourth drowned between sadness and reproaches. Only by opening your heart until you want to know where you can get being a new person.

Life is never as one wants to be, when we are confident more hurt; after a painful experience say that never again believe in love, but in the end it is not as well.

You should not lower the hands, you must follow in your search. One day you will find yourself with someone and you will be afraid to take a step forward, afraid to return to damage you, fear of failure and what people will say if you redo your life…

-Don't let fear dominate you - it is logical that the principle be afraid to repeat the past, but you have ability to deal with adversity, nothing can deny you the happiness that you deserve, we must all feel loved in life. You say that te left side to the first of change? So what? Nothing happens, all things can be overcome, we have the capacity to do so. All suffer from a bad drink, we suffer, but then spent page.

Today we have a blank workbook in which we can write a new story, a new romance ... that no one will remove the smile from her face, our environment always questioning what we do or fail to do. But you, lives life without spinning backwards. Be happy, fall in love to the bones, he laughs, he sees from the life trusting that this time you will make things well and that not everything is bad. If so, don't forget that not everything is as perfect as we want, that you have to fight for our happiness.

You must believe in the second parties. Not all people are equal, we have our imperfections, nobody is really looking for a perfect person that falling in love, what we really want is to find sincere love, true love… a love that does not give rise to suspicion.

Can people that we are not perfect, but if unique, no two alike, no one thinks or acts just like you, and that is what makes the difference. We have a right to have a good love, a healthy relationship, without hidden defects. Still moving forward with these new plans that you have, because that is something that you want, you get the courage that you have within yourself, and gives way to a new stage in your life.

Repeat with me: 
"Even though I make mistakes, my desire is to be happy and get ahead; I will do everything necessary to get to know me in the depths of my being, I will create my own dreams and live the life in my own way. Even if you return to myself, that I will do so, I'll lift, i answer and I will give you so many new opportunities as you need to reach my goals, dreams and illusions."