The criticism of the negative people

We know many people throughout our lives. Many have not been pleasant, but rather than criticize, we have to do is try to help them. Don't know, we do not know your heart…perhaps one kind word make a change in their lives.

How many times you've encountered people really negative? That kind of person that everything looks bad, that everything wrongly interpreted and will stop at nothing to try to correct your errors (errors that only that person perceives, because in your inside you feel like you're doing the right things)…

Yes, there are those people who are living in a deep pit of stubbornness and by more than try to make them see that they are in error, don't see that. They are like tiny spines that you have there glued to the soles of the feet and that you prevent walk strong and secure, because the constant criticism is very destructive and you get to affect your emotions and your self-esteem…

So what can be done to these people? How do I make them understand that they are negative and his condition makes them see things this way?

To begin, we need seek psychological help, support them so that they learn to see their errors, you can learn to be different, that they realize that damage to third parties with their attitudes. Change is not easy, but we need try again. It is sad to see a person act in this way, because you are finally losing their friends, because nobody likes to be judged in a negative way…

For that reason, it is opportune time to help them, to channel your life differently, in a positive way. 

If you are in contact with people who are only able to see the negative things, help them to change   

You who are strong, self-reliant and you own safety, you can help these people. You are able to see all the things in a positive way, because love and with this love all around you… to which drops and supports the needy… that God will thank you with a thousand blessings to your life!

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:: THE HOPE ::

Hope is a beautiful answer many difficult questions.
The hope only asked to believe in it.
Hope wants to receive.
The hope is to keep up your spirits until help arrives.
Every time that one day is not going as planned, the hope is there as a comforting guide to help you understand.
Hope is a quiet, staff where you can always find shelter.
Hope is the warm and welcome conviction that there are wonderful possibilities.
Hope is all these great things and just know that when all you have left is hope still much what you have.

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✌ Yesterday ✌

Life has taught me to keep going, move forward and not get stuck, you need not be afraid of what we have left behind.
Just remember, that nothing can change your past, but your future, yes, you can change it, and the change factor is YOU!

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- Take a Risk -

Do something for someone, is to risk involvement.
Expressing feelings is to risk showing your true self.
Expose your ideas and your dreams, you risk losing them.
To laugh is to risk looking like a fool.
Mourn, you risk appearing sentimental.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
Wait, is to risk despair.
do is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is not to risk.

The person who does not risk, does not, has not, is not intended to, does not long ...

You can avoid suffering and concerns, pleasures and joys but you'd be losing to learn, feel, change, grow, love and live ...

ONLY A PERSON WHO RISKS IS FREE.

You risk?

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- Listen To Love -

Is not it true that sometimes we are shy to express the love we feel?
Can it be that for not "shaming" to the other person or for not embarrassing ourselves hesitate to say: "I LOVE YOU".
And we try to say it with other phrases like: "TAKE CARE" ... "not drive QUICK" "BE NICE" ...
It not are different ways to say "I LOVE YOU, u're important to me" ... or "I care, do not want you wrong?
Sometimes in truth, we are strangers: the only thing we mean, is the only thing we do not say. And, many sometimes not we communicate it entirely and the other person feels ignored and non dear.
By this, we must LISTEN TO LOVE in the words that the other people tell us. The words explicit are necessary but frequently, the way of saying things is even more important.
A nickname said affectionately porta greatest affection and love that feelings that are expressed of way little sincere.
A hug or a kiss impulsive say: "I LOVE YOU", still when words say something different.
Any expression of concern of one person by another says: "I LOVE YOU".
The problem of listening to love is do not always understand the language of love the other person is using.
The truth is that rarely hear; we hear the words, but did not hear the actions that accompany those words or in the expressions of the face.
Normally only listen the rejection or misunderstanding. No we see the love that is there, below the surface even when the words are bitter.
"If we listen attentively, we will realize that we are more beloved than we think"

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- Tú que Amas -

Cuando en tu corazón se abra, llena de vida, la flor perfumada del amor, recuerda que alguien la plantó un día dentro de ti.
Cuando tu corazón se ilumine con el suave colorido de la puesta del sol, recuerda que alguien amaneció contigo. Cuando el fuego de la pasión queme tu corazón,
consumiendo todas tus fibras en la inmolación del placer, recuerda que alguien encendió esa llama.
Cuando tu corazón esté bordado de sueños dorados, tejidos con hilos de luz de luna, recuerda que alguien coloreó tu mundo interior. Cuando la noche te encuentre con el corazón partido y angustiado por las amarguras recogidas en el dia, recuerda que hay alguien esperándote con el pañuelo en la mano.

¡No mires el reloj! ¿Qué importan las horas? La vida es tan corta, no hay tiempo que perder!
Tú que amas, si tienes el coraje y la sencillez de hacerlo así, abre tus labios y canta el milagro del amor, porque sólo el "amor" aproxima a las personas y hacen que hablen el mismo lenguaje...

 - Credits -

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