** Just Live **

"Men who lose their health by raising money, and then lose their money to restore health and thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present such that end up not living neither the present nor the future, live as if they will never die and die as if they had never lived "

** Fear of Happiness **

Many people are afraid of happiness. For these people, this word means changing a series of habits and lose their own identity.
Many times we feel unworthy to live the good things that happen to us. 
Not accepting them because, in so doing, we have the feeling that we owe something to God. We think: "It is better not to try the chalice of happiness, because when we suffer a lot missing"...
For fear of eroding, we continue to grow.
For fear of crying,
stop laughing. 

**Each day you live is a special occasion**

A friend opened the drawer of the dresser of his wife and pulled out a small package wrapped in silk paper that said: "This is not a simple package, is beautiful lingerie". Pull the paper wrapped and noted the exquisite silk and lace. She had bought 9 years ago on a special trip they made together. Never use the lingerie.
What i was saving for a "special occasion".
"Good," she thought - "then, I believe that this is the occasion". Approached the bed and placed the garment along with the other clothes that would lead to the funeral home. His wife had just died. AND turning toward me, told me: "Don't save anything for a special occasion: each day you live is a special occasion".
And today I am still thinking in these words: they have changed my life.
Now i read more and less clean. 
Now I am on the terrace and admire the view without just suck in the weeds from the garden. 
I spend more time with my family and friends and less time at work. 
I experiences to be enjoyed, not to survive. 
No longer saved nothing. Use my crystal glasses every day. 
I pull on my new coat to go to the supermarket, if I choose and i seems to me.
Not already saved my best perfume for special parties, i use every time I feel like doing so.   
I'm not sure what I would have done the wife of my friend if he had known that i wouldn't be here for the tomorrow that we all take so lightly. I think that would have been called to their family and close friends. Who knows, at best, been called to some old friends to apologize and make peace by possible annoyances of the past. I like to think that he would have gone to eat chinese food, your favorite.
Those things are left undone, i would be angry if I knew that my hours are limited. Angry that leave to see good friends with whom I was going to contact "someday"… not angry because i wrote certain letters that I was thinking of writing "one of these days". Angry and sad because I didn't tell them to my brothers and my children often enough how much I love them.
Now I try to not slow down, stop, or save anything that would bring laughter and joy to our lives. And each morning I tell myself that this day is special, each hour, each minute… is special, unique and unrepeatable.
If you received this, it is because someone loves you and wanted to share it with you. Do not keep this thought for the day tomorrow. Now is a good time to share it with your friends and family. The time is now, not tomorrow. Now is better than "one of these days" in order to share the joy and motivation to enjoy life, that "one of these days" is very far or may not ever reach ...

Losing to win

Sounds easy, even simple, but it is not. We must be prepared to lose something to gain something better. Willing to lose what we work for a long time, in order to gain something new, different and better.

Many times it is necessary to win… lose when we are in a relationship with your partner that has become stormy, when those same dreams that one day fed our lives are no longer, when that person that was your life was, tea has been unfaithful… or when your friends with the who and dad your joys and sorrows are no longer there for you, are too busy to attend.

Your marriage has been horrible, just want to keep it all a bad dream for awakening of all these sad realities… in all these situations, one must lose to win.

There is to lose, release what does not make us well, although it is something that we strive and we thought long ago. You cannot be all the time talking about the suffering and injustices that we live, we must be willing to release, leave behind… lose to win.

It clear that you will suffer, you're going to cry, but what is worth more? Will be a time in silence, a cleaning inside to be able to exit the light, to be able to give to life another chance and try to live in a calm manner. For fear of loneliness just clinging to memories, to what we have won and what time we have been saving. Everything in life it takes effort, why costs drop and lose. But nothing in this life belongs to us, even our own life, everything is borrowed, nothing is eternal… That's why I invite you to do this reflection: many times we must lose to stand up and win again.

Remember their life was like before they arrive so many problems and suffering are holding in their hearts. Where was this person that eras before, with dreams of success and projects? Where is that fighter that person more than once was model to follow for other people? What was the person with purpose and vision that once?

You try to search within your being that step with the person who once thou wast, and think again that you are very special.

Returns to believe in yourself, in your capacity to love and make progress in what you propose. Think again that if you want to work on something, you can do it. Returns to be a safe person for itself, as you've been in the past, more than now ... before it reached that person that i just completely annulling.

There is nothing easy laughing again without stopping, it is not easy when you just want to cry. It is not easy to get back to deliver the heart when you have broken several times, but it can be, if you put on your part you can. Only you need to be aware that there are times when it is know release, let go of what surrounds you (whether material or sentimental) and letting go those things that don't make you happy.    

There is to lose to win, because within this "loss" you'll never have to be reborn, to live the life without be suffering or without being the entire day talking about your woes… There is life for you, there is hope within the pain, trust in God that he will. Make an exercise;

-Sigh- Loose… and returns to live.

 

 Ian Catronis

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DO NOT BE AFRAID

DO NOT BE AFRAID of being alone, of seeing you inwardly and to meet you in your silence. 
 Ten afraid to be a lonely, isolated from your brothers, mistrustful, without friends and without communication.

Topics never tell the truth or to clearly express what you feel and say what you've seen or heard. Fears rather trick you to yourself, autoconvencerte of lies or fit masks on your face. 

Be yourself in where you are, to accept the other as they are. Live with intensity and dynamism. Breaks down your walls and arise; and the vine will be for you a song and each day will be a party..

Ian Catronis

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Don't worry so much

Please, don't worry so much. Because in the end, none of us will have a lot of time on this Earth, because life is ephemeral. If ever you are in difficulties, set your gaze in the summer sky, when the stars are strung through the velvety night ... And when you see a shooting star pass through the darkness, turning night into day, calls for a desire, and thinks of me. Make your life is spectacular

Ian Catronis

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Don't be Afraid

of being alone, looking at you inside
and find in your silence.
Be afraid to be a loner, isolated from your brothers, suspicious, no friends and no communication.
Never be afraid to tell the truth or clearly express what you feel and say what you have seen or heard.
Rather fear fool yourself, autoconvencerte of lying or putting masks on your face.
Be yourself where you are, accepting others as they are.
Living with intensity and dynamism.
Break your walls and arise, and life will be for you a song and every day is a party ..

 
 Ian:

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Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Male - Relax

- Live and be Happy -

Every day you live is a special occasion.
Life, however hard it is sometimes put, looks better from behind a small smile. Sometimes we do not get to choose between tears and laughter, but only between tears at such election must know decide on the most beautiful.
Dream what you dare to dream.
Go where you want to go. I know what I want to be. Live!
He who wants to do something finds a way. He who does not want to do anything, find an excuse. You are never given a dream without also give you the means to accomplish it.
Happiness is like a butterfly ...
pursue the more the more you eludes,
but if you turn your attention to other things come
and gently land on your shoulder.
They are not dead who rest in a cold grave, are taking the dead who are still living dead soul! Although you don't know the explanation, nothing happens without reason. Just live and be Happy.

 - Credits -

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