You can't give what you don't have

Who can't be happy, can't give happiness,
who is not comfortable in life, it can make others feel good.
So there are people who spread their happiness as well as people who always have complaints and leave behind a long trail of bitterness.
                                 You can not give what you do have!
When you think about this phrase, I immediately think of the material things that each has, but this discussion is not about that, it's those who live always in a sad and cursing his "bad luck", because according to them everything they goes wrong. People always want things that are not within your reach, things that others have. People know when something has not appreciate it and just think they should have more.
Everything would be different if these people think for a minute that happiness and joy that you can get in life, give us the simple things, things that are always within reach, like a sunrise, enjoy watching a flower, see children laugh or just be grateful for what life has given you.
Such kinds of people, even if they show these things will not feel anything, they will have joy, and not achieve them smile with the things that you enjoy. You can enjoy those things because you are full of love, dreams, hope you feel happy inside and that's makes you a whole person.
-If you have love in your heart, you give love-
And now that's valuable.
Some people think that if a person is happy, you don't have problems. But not, clearly has problems, only he knows cope and although often strike hard pain in his heart, being a person full and nothing achieves full void your happiness, nor his composure to see life. Take everything bad as experience and know even succeed despite these problems everyday life gives us every day.

 LLuvia:

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Love is Forgive and Forget

I know that as humans we all make mistakes, confusion sometimes brings distrust, we feel hurt and forgotten in pain lose hope.It is human weakness, imperfection characterizes us, nobody lives happily without love, loneliness all martyred.If we are right or wrong about the person who says he loves us, yet we defend, we protect the ego that claims us ... 

When you truly love, soul and heart, the differences are unnecessary, and love prevails obvious reason.To love is to give constant attention, is a feeling I can not hide, is manifested in many ways, no matter who we hurt, love can heal us. 

Love is only one, here, there and around the world we can not attach our way, if you really love , that feeling becomes eternal.
Love is delivered with soul and body, with visible actions of feelings, not omitted for any reason, not silent , is explicit at all times. 

The power of true love transcends all understanding, is persevering and willing overcomes the obstacles of any impediment.
 My words may not make sense, you might not think to do, but if anything bothers my mind ... Always remember, to love is to forgive and forget!

LLuvia:

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Go out of you

If you're who you are, serve, love, give; but you never say that you are more than others. If you're wise, you shut up.
That the world discover the wisdom in ti.In that smile you give the old woman, in that greeting you give to the friend, in that caress you do the child, give yourself!
The world is tired of hearing: "I am", "I do", "I serve"
Ask yourself now: "Who am I?", "What?", "Am where going?"; and I know so wise to teach others in your smallest action, giving all, seems that you don't give anything.

LLuvia:

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A woman like you....like me.

We women have a great passion for love, we work and struggle; we don't remain calm, if someone come against us, we confront the adversity with our best way:

our force inside, our Women Dignity.

Many times we sink in pain but we are good swimmers, they mistreat us but we have learnt to defend ourselves.

We fight for our life, we are smart, we read, we open our mind for knowledge, to learn and won't make mistakes form the past.

We don't believe in fairy tales, we know that life isn't like that.

Life of a woman is challenging, we cover big obstacles to reach our dreams. Step by step we conquer our fears fighting for what we believe and we don't allow

that someone tells us that is not for us because it's a male thing.

Women can surprise the entire world for our way of falling down and keep standing even stronger than before.

Nothing is too big for us, we can do anything.

You never must confront a woman unless you are certain that you are better than her, that woman might surprise you, as inside her there are so many good things

that not even her is able to value what she worth.

A woman can make that the red hits all the street lights of life, you must show respect. love, trust, because that woman is mother, daughter, grand daughter...

she is the one who will bring children to the world, to create a new world, a better one from the one we know.

Women make the difference in the world.

A woman is and will be the one who protects her children and she will take care of her home and husband.

We woman want a lovely life and peace.

Is that too much to ask?

If you are a good man and you share your life with a great woman you will be a succesfull man, a real man, as she will let you grow.

We women don't want models, we just one a man that love us, that take our hands and hold us while our world is falling down. We ask for a few but we give all we can.

A woman is the most beautiful flower in your garden, is a essence that goes in your senses, is the most and perfect creation in the universe, they have a fast mind and intelligent

which is known today as they are in important places in the whole world.

We are not dolls that falls in love with the first man we meet. That is history. Today women choose who will be their love ones.

It's not easy to find a good woman, is not as simple as to bring flowers and chocolates, we want facts, no words. We are tired of that, we want reality, no utopias.

How proud is to be a woman and to be strong!

We have learnt to ask for respect,as to respect ourselves. We are free from that saying that we were dumb and submissive. NEVER, we know what we worth.

That's why we ask the same:

A GREAT MAN; otherwise remain in line and maybe you we'll fall for someone that doesn't deserve you.

Men, don't be afraid, as we only want from you is to be honest and truth: we dont want lies, we don't want men just for one day, we want a man for the rest of our life.

If you think you can with a woman who feels this way, forward, we will recognize that we who truly loves us and who we only used… Take Care of the women that you have today, because tomorrow will be your best stick.

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The sweet taste of a woman exquisite

A woman exquisite is not one that has more men to their feet, but one which has only one that makes it truly happy. A beautiful woman is not the youngest, nor the most skinny, nor the one that has the most terse complexion or hair more striking, is one that with just a smile and a good council can festivities life.
 A woman of worth is not one that has more titles, nor more academic positions, is one that sacrifices her dream by making others happy. A woman exquisite is not the most ardent, but which vibrates to make love only with the man she loves.
An interesting woman is not one that is flattered to be admired for its beauty and elegance, is a woman of strong character who can say NOT. And a man, a exquisite is the one who appreciates a woman as well.

Author: Gabriel García Márquez

   

LLuvia:

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==Women==

The woman doesn't want to look, you want a smile. The woman doesn't want to company, wants to presence. The woman doesn't want to cry, to tears. Women want, what is more simple grant.

The women don't seek a hand, looking for touch. The women don't seek times, expected developments. The women don't seek your laughter, waits for your joy. The women offers, what you've always been able to give. Women do not want a body, you want a hug.

The woman doesn't want to praise you want words. The woman doesn't want to lips, you want a kiss. The woman doesn't want to be a person, you want to be a woman. Women do not expect your time, wait time with you. Women do not expect passion, expected romance. Women sex does not wait, expecting love. Women do not expect beauty, expected make you feel beautiful.

The woman is a woman, not the worldly life as a man. The woman is a woman, is not physical, it is sentimental. The woman is a woman, it is not body, is the heart. Women not you, not the worldly life as expect to be treated.  

The woman is not to possess, is to admire. The woman is not to convince, is to love. The woman is not to know, is to understand. The woman is not what you think, she is much more.

The woman is not a face, is a whole. The woman is not difficult, it is mysterious. The woman is not touch, caress is. The wife is not the spine, is the Rose. 

 

LLuvia

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Fearless

Never be afraid to tell the truth or clearly express what you feel and say what you have seen or heard.
Rather fear fool yourself, autoconvencerte of lying or putting masks on your face.
Be yourself where you are, accepting others as they are ... Living with intensity and dynamism. Break your walls, arise and life will be for you a song and every day is a party.

LLuvia:

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ツ That we don't See ツ

Sometimes we begin to fear for life, without having first traced goals.
Sometimes we criticize the life of others without criticizing ours.
Sometimes we envy the achievements of others, rather than learn from them.
Sometimes we ask for help from someone, although we do not know thanks.
Sometimes we believe to be the best friend, not really knowing what is friendship.
Sometimes we help others, even though we are selfish with ourselves.
Sometimes we settle for what we have and may be better still.
Sometimes we want to have more power, without knowing the power of Love
Sometimes we think we know everything, without having read any book.
Sometimes we think we have succeeded, without knowing what is being lost.
Sometimes people disappoint us, without commercial known well.

Each of us is a rookie all you begin to discover.
Just as the world is presented as a box of surprises, so do people ...
We believe knowing a person (for what it does, what it looks like, what you want)

What we don't see.

Discover: your goals in life, their fears, their dreams.
Discover: the one who was, who he is, the one who will.
Find out: what they want, what they learn, what they criticize.
Discover: how they feel about themselves, others and life.

What we do not see, but that is part of the essence of each.
We begin to discover our own essence.

 LLUVIA

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Remember that ...

There are sorrows that are like the waterfalls of the rivers, slide soft and lowered by your life without stopping before the obstacles to then lead to the beaches of your future joy. 
When notes that your gaze lost the brightness of the sunset, recalls that in the morning rises the sun who will be your today the start of your day, why always expects the morning with the head erect.
Sympathizing with the continuous life even when your sun does not shine. All the troubles that you couldn t perceive in life have as purpose to remember that you still have the sense of taste to differentiate the good from the bad. Only live one day at a time, so if you're in a hurry you have to wait 24 hours to see the morning.
How Much love is there in heaven for you! Life is a luxury, it is the taste of the exquisite by keep a foot in front of the other. Yes, life is a luxury; luxury to love, to breathe, to dream and to be happy. Why spend your life as if you are millionaire. 
That your smile is similar to that of the children when they know they are loved and that you can see in this day you were born you were to receive a caress in each one of your beats, you know the taste of perfuming your mouth with words full of the aroma of your interior and that the peace that surrounds the fatherly heart of God that you keep saturated of tranquility in this your only day that belongs to you live.
Being alive is one of the most beautiful gifts that you'll be able to keep both your spirit and your soul and eternal youth. Therefore, expresses your liveliness in everything you do, laugh as if it were the last time, it sounds like children and make it a human being that live and let live. 
Each week there is two days of which we don't have to worry ever. Two days that would have to be free from sorrow.  
Yesterday with their concerns, its evils and their sentences. Yesterday she ran away from our hands, is gone forever and not all the gold in the world could relive the day yesterday. 
We cannot delete just one of our acts, we cannot avoid a single word of that we have pronounced; the past is not more. 
Another day of which we would not have to worry about is "tomorrow" with their adversities possible, its burdens, its nice promises. Tomorrow is also outside of our scope. Tomorrow the sun will rise in all its splendour or behind a screen of clouds, but was lifted. Until the moment we have no power over the morning, but is yet to come.
We still have a single day, "today". All the people can fight a battle in a single day. It is when you and I added the weight of these two awful Eternities, "yesterday, and Tomorrow". They are not the evidence of the day the tasks that are due or crazy man, it is the remorse or bitterness that has left us yesterday and the fear of what we can bring tomorrow.

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