Love each other with the eyes open

When one falls in love with in reality do not see the other as a whole, but that the other works like a screen where the boyfriend projected their idealized aspects. The feelings, unlike the passions, are more durable and are anchored to the perception of external reality. The construction of the love begins when I can see that I have in front, when I discover the other. It is there when love replaces the love.
Past that initial moment begin to come to light the worst parts mine that also in the project. Loving someone is the challenge of undo those projections to truly relate to the other. This process is not easy, but it is one of the most beautiful things that are happening or that we help to occur.
We talk about love in the sense of "we care about the well-being of the other". Nothing more and nothing less. How to love, like the well-being that invades body and soul and that takes hold when i get to see the other without wanting to change it. More important than the manner of the other, care about the welfare that i feel at his side and well-being by my side. The pleasure of being with someone who deals with that one this good, who sees what we need and enjoy in so doing liberates us, it really makes the love.
A couple is more than a decision, is something that happens when we feel united with another in a different way. I could say that from the pleasure of being with another we took the decision to share a large part of our life with that person and we discovered the pleasure of being together. Although you need to know to find a companion of path is not sufficient; it also requires that the person is capable of nourishing ourselves, as we already said, that in fact it will be an effective aid in our personal growth.
True love exists when we love so we know that that person can become, not only for what it is.
"Love is rather a relationship in which the other person is not actually recognized as truly another, but rather felt and understood as if it were a double of yourself, perhaps in the male version and eventually equipped with features that correspond to the idealised image of what one would like to be. In love there is a i love to see me reflected in it"

    
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Ian Catronis

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Boots: [Gos] Triumph Boots for Men 



 

The friends are not spent

The friends have a special place in my heart many times I have thanked God for having given his friendship. 

When practicing the friendship I have learned some principles, such as those noted below:

1.- Memory: although today the distance separates us, we must always remember the friend or the friend who at some point comforted us, we stayed, encouraged us , loved us.

2. - Caution: we must respect the hours of our friends. We do not intrude upon their privacy, believing that a friend gives us absolute rights over his life.

3. - Sincerity: there is no true friendship without full confidence. Everything has to be on the table. I believe in friendship " open-heart".

4. - Humility: we need the humility to ask for forgiveness each time we are wrong. We need also breadth of heart to forgive.

5. - Generosity: in true friendship is not looking for receive but give. Between friends we gave our time, our affection, our prayers, our money.

"Filled with happiness or suffering, the heart has need to share, because joy is shared double joy, and pain shared is half of pain."

Let s take care of our friends; do not let us use and the friends that are being used, it is spent; but the friends well care, last for many years.

!May God help us to care for the friendship and not abuse it!

Ian:

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Pants: RONSEM* Rollup Jeans / light*

Hair: ILLMATIC :: Frenchie - Noir

Glasses: [Z O O M] Monochromatic Sunglass

Necklace: ::GB:: 3Strand necklace Silver

Shoes: 2Real - STARZ SHOES BOX

Ears: [MANDALA]TAPER_EARS

Bracelet: [MANDALA] UTAMARO Bracelet /white

Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Male - Relax

Feets:  Slink AvEnhance Feet Male Flat

        

Starting again ...

 Although you might feel tired, 
although the triumph tea leaves, 
although an error you get hurt, 
although a betrayal you smite, 
although an illusion is shut down, 
although the pain burn your eyes, 
even ignore your efforts, 
although the ingratitude is the pay, 
although the incomprehension court your laughter, 
even though everything else seems nothing ... 
begins again.

Ian:

Shirt: RONSEM* Roll up shirt / medium (male) NEW!

Pants: <kal rau> Casual Jeans M4_ Dark NEW!

Hair: ~Tableau Vivant~ Low hair - Gents - Winter Collabor88 NEW!

Boots: Flite. -Navigator Low Rider Black

Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Male - Relax

When one loves

 Telling someone you love is something that comes from the heart, the first place that made you love him, from the beginning. It is impossible to describe, born with a gaze, grows to know each other and nourishes every moment, every word, every look…
Loving a person is to be patient and kind, is not to be jealous or arrogant, or proud or aggressive. Love is not blind, just look at what really matters… what you were born in the first place, he doesn't want to hear it or the color or size, if you have wealth or poverty, obesity or thinness, attributes beautiful or ugly, it only matters what is inside… who is that person in truth.
Love is not blind, or deaf, or stupid, in fact looks beyond what ever tell you. Goes beyond one and shows who in truth we are to that person. Being in love requires see that person as of truth is; love is to know everything good and bad and still love him for who he is.Love is not always pink, because you can't have love without pain; the sacrifice is part of what it means to love someone, because if you don't have willingness to sacrifice for that person because I just don't love. 
Love is to be able to trust one another, know that as we would recieve a bullet by that person, and that this also will be ready to do so; to know that no matter what that person will be there against wind and tide. Love is to make the impossible possible for that person loved this happy.

Love means having strong and unwavering feelings by a best friend, family member or by the person with whom you are in the romantic relationship. Love is a feeling that represents infinite affection toward the person beloved in your heart.

 On Ian:

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Pants: RONSEM* Skinny (male) black NEW!

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Boots: FLite.-Corporals Black LowRiders

Hands: Slink AvEnhance Hands Male - Relax

Ears: [MANDALA]STEKING_ears_ver4

Teeth: [PXL] OpenMouth Pro v2.0 [Wear ME]

Face piercing: [MANDALA]OKAKI face peiarcing set

THE TIME

How many times have desired stop time! For this moment we are living, that stage or situation so happy that we don't want anything that will be us...
There are times that we would like to stop the time, we are so happy that we say "my God stop this time!" but nothing, time will like water between our fingers, and we can do absolutely nothing to stop it. The time is thus, passes and don't we realize when we are living times.
There is also another side of the coin and is when the time that we are living is cruel, it hurts to the bone this time that we are living, is so horrible that we want only to close my eyes and think what a nightmare... and that "my God, I'd like that time will pass soon, do not leave me in this time abandoned my luck and everything bad I'm living".
Times of good news, there are times that in our lives we make forever already is by someone that we love with all our heart, by someone who made us feel in the clouds that we lived a true dream of love, a time of happiness inexplicable and selfish because we locked ourselves in that feeling that made us forget everything that surrounded us.
Does this story seem them known?
I think Yes, because whenever we are in a State of happiness we find as well that person that everyone else are unnecessary, but careful, remember that you can not live forever attached to a person, you have to know to let them breathe or that beautiful moment will be a torture in the long run.
Remember that time is the only thing we can't stop, sent only, going by our lives delivering different types of feelings.
It is always good to not deviate much from our families or friends do not want that no one has to suffer a day in the life, because someday will need them even though we don't want to, but it seems that it is a balance, we must suffer in order to be able to assess happiness, there is no love without crying once, then we must be careful that our time on Earth is full of contrasts.
Time is like a road that we walk either for our better or our evil, just walking without stop our steps and look back.

Note:
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Ian:

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Pants: RONSEM* Straight Jeans / jetblack (male)

Hair: *Dura-Boys&Girls*49(Black) NEW!

Boots: *chronokit* Boots03 Fabric Black NEW!!

Gloves: Kauna - Fingerless Gloves NEW!!

Hair Base: [LANEVO] LC HAIRBASE - BUZZCUT (DURA-BLACK)

Cigarette: .:Hermony:. / Ultimate Cigarette / Package

Ears: UNISEX[MANDALA]STEKING_ears_ver4

Teeth: [PXL] OpenMouth Pro v2.0 [Wear ME]

Face piercing: (Wear me to unpack)[MANDALA]OKAKI face peiarcing set