Don't fall in love with the love, fall in love with someone that i loved you, that you wait, you understand that even in the madness; for someone to help you, guide you, your support, your hope, your everything.
Fall in Love with someone who sounds with thee, that they just need to think about it, in your face, in your delicacy, in your spirit and not in your body or in your own property. Fall in Love With someone that you wait until the end, of someone who is what you do not choose, which don't expect.
Fall in Love with someone who suffers with you, laugh along with you, that dry your tears, you cherish when necessary, that is happy with your joys and forces that tea after a failure
Fall in Love With someone that it again after the fights, after splitting, of someone to walk beside you, that will be a good companion(a), which respects fantasies, illusions ... Fall in Love With someone that loves you. Don't fall in love with the love, fall in love with someone who is already in love with you.
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When one falls in love with in reality do not see the other as a whole, but that the other works like a screen where the boyfriend projected their idealized aspects. The feelings, unlike the passions, are more durable and are anchored to the perception of external reality. The construction of the love begins when I can see that I have in front, when I discover the other. It is there when love replaces the love.
Past that initial moment begin to come to light the worst parts mine that also in the project. Loving someone is the challenge of undo those projections to truly relate to the other. This process is not easy, but it is one of the most beautiful things that are happening or that we help to occur.
We talk about love in the sense of "we care about the well-being of the other". Nothing more and nothing less. How to love, like the well-being that invades body and soul and that takes hold when i get to see the other without wanting to change it. More important than the manner of the other, care about the welfare that i feel at his side and well-being by my side. The pleasure of being with someone who deals with that one this good, who sees what we need and enjoy in so doing liberates us, it really makes the love.
A couple is more than a decision, is something that happens when we feel united with another in a different way. I could say that from the pleasure of being with another we took the decision to share a large part of our life with that person and we discovered the pleasure of being together. Although you need to know to find a companion of path is not sufficient; it also requires that the person is capable of nourishing ourselves, as we already said, that in fact it will be an effective aid in our personal growth.
True love exists when we love so we know that that person can become, not only for what it is.
"Love is rather a relationship in which the other person is not actually recognized as truly another, but rather felt and understood as if it were a double of yourself, perhaps in the male version and eventually equipped with features that correspond to the idealised image of what one would like to be. In love there is a i love to see me reflected in it"
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Sounds easy, even simple, but it is not. We must be prepared to lose something to gain something better. Willing to lose what we work for a long time, in order to gain something new, different and better.
Many times it is necessary to win… lose when we are in a relationship with your partner that has become stormy, when those same dreams that one day fed our lives are no longer, when that person that was your life was, tea has been unfaithful… or when your friends with the who and dad your joys and sorrows are no longer there for you, are too busy to attend.
Your marriage has been horrible, just want to keep it all a bad dream for awakening of all these sad realities… in all these situations, one must lose to win.
There is to lose, release what does not make us well, although it is something that we strive and we thought long ago. You cannot be all the time talking about the suffering and injustices that we live, we must be willing to release, leave behind… lose to win.
It clear that you will suffer, you're going to cry, but what is worth more? Will be a time in silence, a cleaning inside to be able to exit the light, to be able to give to life another chance and try to live in a calm manner. For fear of loneliness just clinging to memories, to what we have won and what time we have been saving. Everything in life it takes effort, why costs drop and lose. But nothing in this life belongs to us, even our own life, everything is borrowed, nothing is eternal… That's why I invite you to do this reflection: many times we must lose to stand up and win again.
Remember their life was like before they arrive so many problems and suffering are holding in their hearts. Where was this person that eras before, with dreams of success and projects? Where is that fighter that person more than once was model to follow for other people? What was the person with purpose and vision that once?
You try to search within your being that step with the person who once thou wast, and think again that you are very special.
Returns to believe in yourself, in your capacity to love and make progress in what you propose. Think again that if you want to work on something, you can do it. Returns to be a safe person for itself, as you've been in the past, more than now ... before it reached that person that i just completely annulling.
There is nothing easy laughing again without stopping, it is not easy when you just want to cry. It is not easy to get back to deliver the heart when you have broken several times, but it can be, if you put on your part you can. Only you need to be aware that there are times when it is know release, let go of what surrounds you (whether material or sentimental) and letting go those things that don't make you happy.
There is to lose to win, because within this "loss" you'll never have to be reborn, to live the life without be suffering or without being the entire day talking about your woes… There is life for you, there is hope within the pain, trust in God that he will. Make an exercise;
-Sigh- Loose… and returns to live.
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